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Your Faery Godmother of Adultery 🧚🏻‍♀️

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Published about 1 year ago • 3 min read

Hello Darling,

It’s been a while, I know! I’ve been so busy with my actual job, a project and consulting work I’ve set up on the side – on top of helping my clients find the affair partners of their dreams! That last one I see as my civic duty to increase sexual happiness worldwide.❤️

Here's what's going on with your girl!

App development is ongoing with my messaging tool. I’ve been a little slow at it because it took my developer a little longer than I expected to get the functionality down, which knocked the wind out of my sails. Getting back to him is on my list of to-dos today, and 1,000,000 other things. AI is amazing, but I’m learning that it's all about how to program it and tell it what to do. Otherwise, it's as dumb as a stump.

This begs the question – will AI replace writers? Yes and no. It will replace crappy writers, but good ones will be sought after. Which sort am I? We’ll see. More than anything, what AI has helped me do is scale up.

Good news from a client about pics

I’ll let him tell the story –

Hi Teresa
Another quick update for you -
So far I've had five women complimenting me on the quality of my profile text, which is terrific. Having a profile picture up-front* is working better. Fewer interactions but none of the "oh, you look like that... so I now don't like you" stuff, which is a very deflating experience. I've had two (real) women contact me first, which has literally never happened before.
The "happy to shag someone who hates me" line is also inspired as it sorts out who has a good sense of humor and who isn't worth wasting time on. So far, two good prospects and one date arranged.

*A note on the pics up front - this client is in an open relationship and so has some flex on using his pix. He's not on AM, but another site as well. For AM users, you could share your pix once she opens your message.

Pictures have been a huge challenge spot for my clients lately, and I’ve been having difficulty navigating this space with them. Some have gotten professional photos with some success, whereas others haven’t. The trend seems to be that my profiles and opening messages bring the women in, but the pictures shut them down.

How the women shut them down has also been particularly brutal. In turn, that has revealed the emotional toll both men and women suffer when they are rejected based on how they look. I tell my clients that the women on the site own them nothing, so get used to the rough and tumble some take. Having said that, you’d expect that women who’ve felt this judgment their whole lives would understand and be gentler in their rejection.❤️

What do I recommend?

Lie. Say something like this instead of a block –

“Hi, I’ve just connected with someone I’d like to pursue, all the best in your search.”

If they keep returning and you aren’t interested, block them. That’s fair game, but there’s nothing wrong with letting someone off without hurting them. 🦹🏼‍♀️


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As always, thank you for everything you do!🫡

Teresa

Your Faery Godmother of Adultery 🧚🏻‍♀️

And please let me know if you have questions or story ideas! I couldn't do this without you!


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Your Faery Godmother of Adultery 🧚🏻‍♀️

by Teresa J. Conway

Author of How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress and the Complete Ashley Madison User's Guide (both avaliable on Amazon). I write and blog about adultery, which can be like any other relationship. I also support men looking for partners on dating apps, by writing their profiles, advising on their pictures, and helping them with messaging!

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